Sealing the one night stand (for guys)

This should be easy and painless, so let’s get right to it because I’m pretty sure the title says it all.
Flirting is one thing, but when a woman is dtf, she is going to let you know, if you ask the right “questions”. A girl who wants some loving tonight will bat her eyes, touch, drink and be downright nasty.

So let’s start with the simple signs:

Eye contact

Look at the way she looks at her friends, then catch the way she looks at one of her guy friends or that random that keeps trying to dance up on her. Then compare those looks to how she is looking at you. If its exactly the same, she’ll be hankering for her own bed later that night. But, if her gaze seems more narrowed and her head tilts down or to the side when she is talking to you, she’s definitely more open to something later. This isn’t a seal the deal moment, but if you keep going in the right direction, it will lead there. When we are attracted to you, we want to make ourselves look sexier. We figure that in the magazines, women always seem squinty, so we think that’s what you like. So far, its always gotten the message across for me.

How she touches you

How she touches you Is different than how often. Yes, if she is constantly touching you, she is trying to keep herself in your line of sight, or she could just be drunk and needs help keeping herself up. If she is talking to other people and she puts her hand on your knee or arm, she is sending you some important signs, so don’t ignore them. If she is placing her hand on your back (moreso lower), mid thigh or chest, she is building sexual tension. She wants you to reciprocate the touch or kiss her. Reciprocate for sure, but don’t kiss her yet. There is literally no better foreplay than being teased. It might be hard, but it will be worth it later, trust me.

Now that you’ve established touching is ok, pay attention to one big thing:

her legs

Unless she is wearing a skirt or she her leg hair grew outstandingly long, she won’t shave if she is going home alone. As hygienic as I am, if I’m going somewhere dark and I’m wearing a skirt, I still won’t shave my legs if my leg hair isn’t crazy. For some reason, it’s the easiest way to keep you from making any mistake you might be worried you’ll make later on. If I’m talking to a guy, even if I’ve been drinking, and I’m thinking about bringing him home but I feel my legs and feel the stubble, I put a kibosh on the situation. If you feel her legs and they are silky smooth, she was thinking of this exact situation before she left the house.

Drinks

If she is having drinks, and all of the above is a yes, then she is keeping herself loose. Girls who can stay absolutely sober and go home with a random guys are either very exact on what they want or they’re sluts. If I am thinking of sexy time later and I think I have it in the bag, then I keep having drinks because I want to the fun to keep going and I want to feel good about my impending decision. Not that you’re ugly enough that I need liquor motivation, but sometimes you need Captain Morgan to be the friend that says, “its ok to slut it up tonight!”

Sexual Jokes

Make a few sexual jokes and see how far you can go. If she keeps laughing or will go back and forth with you, she is trying to let you know that she is up for it. Any guy I want to get with, I don’t leave it to chance too often. “look at you taking that shot! You’re a good swallower huh?” “Haha, shutup, you wish you knew” “yeah I do…” smiles. Yep, she’s DTF.

Finally, when it’s time to go home, do what I aforementioned and don’t leave it up to chance. Remember the rule: girls like a little douche in their gentlemen. I personally respond best to when I’m being told what to do, as in; when everyone is deciding rides and I’m acting like I’m not worried about where you’re going but I really am, you grab my arm and it’s a simple, “Ok, you’re going to get in this taxi with me and we’re going back to my place”. Yes I Am. She wants to act like she is classy and not immediately going back for a one night stand, but let’s face it, she is. So let her know what the plan is and she’ll follow.

Now remember, be nice. Don’t kick her out right after because then you’ll never get it again, and offer her something comfy to sleep in for heaven’s sakes.

#sicknight